Sunday, May 1, 2011

Mom, Here is Anger in Kids?

I think, the journey of parenthood is like a roller coaster. Sometimes there are moments of joy and pleasure and sometimes the process assembly difficult and painful. All parents struggle turns to nurture and protect their children. However, children of this generation are impatient, frustrated and angry.

It was not common scenario of all family members who have no children are their parents crazy with their demands and whims. Despite all the luxury and the kids love to complain and express their anger against, or that it has chosen.

Anger is not inherently a bad feeling. Such as happiness, sorrow and pain, anger, feeling unnatural interest of the people. He, the beauty of expression tears made the worst situation. Children, some if they get difficult, if not meeting with the brothers fought. some in case, they have their friends and bite at the slightest provocation. Some children in puberty, including verbal abuse to parents, and decides to their homes of slackers in anger destroy.

As already mentioned, the anger is normal, but if it in terms of  abuse and violence can, the undesired results and contingent liabilities as well is uncontrolled anger among children may.:
1. Growth of complaints from neighbors and teachers

2.Fight with siblings and friends
3.The embarrassment of the parents in the public
4.Social boycott and the release of the child in anger
5.Injuries to children with other
6.Inability to manage anger and controller adult
7.Damaged relationships with parents and family.

These results are terrible enough to pay to give sleepless parents. In addition, behavior problems is not the child be able to live healthy and happy in the society.

Who is responsible for the growing anger in children? No, no children responsible. The environment in which they live and teach them to explode, a developer and rage like a bomb. Most of the time the children learn their anger in a wrong way to express parent. They carefully observed the reactions of the parents in difficult situations and unfavorable. They see their parents crier, herald, threw intangible rights, the use of coarse language of the United Nations, banging doors, and who of wrestling, sometimes bitter between them when their expectations do not react in the situation.

Parents are role models for children behaviour. Your behavior and defines the model, in which children express their anger. Children learn their price supports proposals initial anger of the parents and family behaviour! Therefore, it is parents and families to teach children to manage Anger in a friendly manner.